Guur Bannaan iyo ku aan Bannaaneyn (Qudbo Siro.)

Guur Bannaan iyo ku aan Bannaaneyn (Qudbo Siro.)

Adaa mudan, Mohamed Muuse.


> Isla jawaabtaadaas markii aan dhuuxey waxa
> ii caddaatey (haddii loo baahdo iyada oo dhan
> waan soo dhejin doonaaye) in sababta gabadha
> aad u "guursatey" ay ka duwaneyd reer dhisasho
> ayna ujeeddada kama dambeysta ahayd ee
> "guurkaasi" ahayd in aad waqtiga ku dhaafto,
> sida aan guurdoon kula talisay oo kale.


Nikaaxayga kama duwanayn xalaal(reer dhisasho).
Haddii uu nikaaxayga ka duwanaan lahaa oo uu xaraan
ahaan lahaa guurar badan oo muslimiin tii hore samayn
jireey ayaa ahaan lahaa kuwa ka duwan reer dhisasho.

> Metelan waxad sheegtay in sababta ugu muhiimsan
> ee "guurka" kugu kelliftey ay ahayd in aad xaaraanta
> ka dhowrsato oo ay kugu adkaatey inaad "boyfriend"
> noqoto, ee aaney ahayn inaad rabtey inaad reer waara
> dhisto.


In aan xaaranta ka dhowrsamo waxay ahayd mida
ugu muhiimsan oo ugu kaliftey inaan nikaaxiyo
gabdhahaas.

Waxaa la yiri: "NIN TUUR LEH, SIDUU U
SEEXDO ISA GAA OG".

Situation-ka ku noolaashaha dalkaan waa
uu xun yahay.

Marka sidee looga dhowrsami karaa loogana
bixi karaa doobnimada.

Waxaa halkaan la hayaa gabdho qalaad(gaalo ah)
oo raba in la la seexdo.

Gabdhihaas waxay la soo jeedaan in la la saaxiibo.

Ma rabaan in hore loo guursado. waxay
rabaan in la isla soco mudo dheer inta
aan guurka iman si lays ku barto both
physically and emotionally.

Sidee loo xaliyaa arintaan?

Waxaa jira ragga aan maanta guur diyaar
u ahayn ama awoodin ama si un wax ka
tahay (ama meel daran ama meel ay gabdho
fiican oo caruur laga samaysan ayasan karo
joogin).

Ragaas waxay sameeyaan arimahaan:

1-nimanka qaarkiis waxay gabdhaha ka
dhigtaan girlfriends.

2-nimanka qaarkiis way isaga tagaan
gabdhahaas doonaayo in girlfriend laga dhigto.

3-nimanka qaarkiis way nikaaxiyaan gabdhahaas.

1-Arinta koowaad haddii la sameeyo waa
arin xun(xaraan)

2-Arinta labaad haddii la sameeyo waa
arin aad u adag oo doobnimada u daran.

3-Arinta sadexaad haddii la sameeyo,
ma xaaraan baa, mise waa xalaal?---
---that is the question.

Mahamed Muse, kor waxaad ku tiri in
"guurkaas ujeeddada ka dambeyso in
uu yahay mid ka duwan reer dhisasho"

Now,  let me remind you something.
Do you remember that there was a xadiis
in which there was an old man who had
a young wife(I think she was his servant)
whom he didnt' want to have a family with
her(reer or a child)? That man was told
that(not that this his was min ka duwan
reer dhisasho or xaraam). He was told that
the could do whatever he wanted to prevent
reerkaas(guurkaas)....in essance, this means
that if it was meant, he will have a
family (reer or child) with her anyway?

So, was that "guur" xaraam(mid ka duwan
ugeeddada laga leeyahay nin iyo naag is
raba in ay xalaal isugu tagaan)?

Also, do you know that the early Muslims
used to travel to other countries(to do jihaad or trade)?

Do you think they went without women during
their journey in overseas, even when they knew
their intention was to come back to their own
country(to their own reer)?

> Inta aanan soo qorin axkaamta la xidhiidha arrimahan,
> ka warran haddii aad arrimahan (sida ay iila muuqdaan)
> inaad waafaqsan tahay iyo in kale sheegto.

Waa yahay. Markii aad axkaamta wax ka soo
qorayso, please explain also was is AW'MAA
MALAKAT AYMAANIHIM, okay? I think the it is
in the SUURATUL MU'MINIIN.


> Macnihii in 1) ay niyadaada ku jirtay "meherka"
> hortii in wakhti soo socda gabadhani aad
> kala tegi doontaan;


Markii aan gabdhaha gaalada ah aan mehrinaayey
niyadayda waxaa ku jirey in aan xalaal ka dhigto.
Waxaan geeyey masaajidka oo aan nikaaxiyey.


2) Inaanad rabin iney carruur kuu dhasho;


Inta aan meher xalaal ah ku qabo gabdhahaas haddii
ay isbedeli lahaayeen oo ay muslim noqon lahaayeen,
waan la degi la haa oo xataa caruur haddii ilaahay
iga siin lahaa niyadayda way dooni lahayd.


3) Iney iyadu arrinta idin dhex martey (meherka) ay u
> arkeysay sidii oo aad tahay "boyfriend" ee aaney marnaba
> xuquuq reernimo, sida is-dhaxlid iwm, iney kugu yeelaneyso
> fahamsaneyn.

Nikaaxa wuxuu yahay markii aan u sharxay
gabdhaha oo xataa imaamka masaajidka uu u
qeexay gabdhaha iyo inagaba, waxaa halkaa
ku cadayd in ay ogaadeen xaquuqda meherka oo
dhan, xataa waxaa lagu qasbay in ay lacagta
meherka sheegataan, si kastaba ha u
yaraatee(they didn't want to ask mehr money
because they felt it was something they didn't
have to receive)

> Sidoo kale qoraalkaa dhexdiisa waxaad tilmaantey in
> markii taas aad kala tagteen aad mid kale iyadana "qudbo
> sir ku haysatey" muddoo saddex bilood ah.  Tan dambe iyana
> ma taa hore ayuun bay la xaal ahayd?

Haah.


--
CIISE MIRE XIRSI
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